They might say it is because we all have not come to a
full realization of our true divine potentials. It is ignorance that leads to bad deeds.
Then ask them how, if we are divine, our mere ignorant
self could so easily override our divine goodness.
Why do our "realities" contradict each other?
They might say that they don't contradict each other. They
are simply different shades of light on the same picture (or something vague like that).
Then ask if truth contradicts itself. It does not. The
logic is that if we are all in different forms of truth, then these different truths can't
ultimately contradict each other--or they wouldn't be true. However,...
The NAM says that Jesus is only one of many ways to God.
But Jesus said He was the only way to God (John 14:6). They can't both be right;
therefore, the NAM teaching that we can create our own truths can't be true.
Don't let them take Christian words and use them out of
the context of biblical meaning.
New Agers recognize the tremendous influence and spotless
reputation of Jesus. They want Him to be associated with their beliefs. As a result, you
might find yourself facing a New Ager who uses Christian words--but with non-Christian
definitions. Listen carefully, and don't let them steal what is Christian and transplant
it into their system.
You must question the terms they use. You need to make sure that what they mean by
Christian terms is the same thing that you mean by them.
Listen for internal contradictions.
As mentioned above, truth does not contradict itself. You
must listen to what they are saying and ask questions. Sooner or later you catch on to
inconsistencies.
Inconsistencies usually arise when discussing the relationship between reality and
belief.
For example, a New Ager might say that you can create your own reality. I might
reply, "Good. Then if I believe red lights are really green, would you want to
go driving with me?"
Tell them that God is personal, that he loves them, and
that Jesus died for sin.
The Word of God will not come back empty without
accomplishing what God wishes it to (Isaiah 55:11). If you focus on Jesus, tell them the
truth about sin and salvation, and use Scripture, then, at least, they will have heard the
truth. Praise be to Jesus the Christ.
Remember, God's word is powerful. Whether or not
they accept it isn't the issue. You simply need to present the truth in an accurate
and loving manner (Col. 4:5-6; 1 Tim. 1:5).